Dear Friend,
You would have thought your first pregnancy scare would have been a reality check itself but after two you continue to do the same mistakes. You have been taught about the risks of having sex at this age , the PHYSICAL consequences and the EMOTIONAL consequences. Your mom gives you talks all the time as a reminder , she doesn't give them to you in a punishing way but just a reminder of care and safety but it seems that all that information went through one ear and out the other . Here you are standing thinking about your three decisions , abortion, adopting or keeping it . A women has the right to all three , you aren't forced to any of them besides the pressure of society . One being to keep the baby because it is your responsibility but yet you're are still learning how to be responsible yourself how can you start teaching another life about responsibility if you cant even be responsible yourself , two being to abort the baby because you dont want the responsibility and now are questioning yourself about the baby's dad weather he's staying or leaving, Three being giving the baby up for adoption to someone who isn't able to have the chance of having a baby , but you also dont want to live with that guilt of your child thinking you didn't care for them.
Im a Senior in high school. 5 months away from graduating. I start college this year and start making more serious life choices but I'm also still young and enjoying this time with friends , family and trying new fun things. I have plans of going to college and studying abroad. All those plans would come to and end if I were to get pregnant. I couldn't live with the fact of aborting my child or giving them up for adoption when I was taught and aware of all the consequences of having sex at this age . Especially if I knew my parents would be disappointed at first but still be supportive and wouldn't shut me out about the situation unlike for many other teens where there parents dont support them at all and completely shut them out . I would step up to the plate take responsibility for my actions . I wanted to take that risk of having sex at this age and act all stupid and think I'm all grown and now I deal with the consequences of it .
I think Juno made the right decision about giving up for adoption. Her and bleeker are clearly not ready to raise a child if they cant even talk. Although I dont think it was smart of her to get so close to the adoptive parents since she wanted a closed adoption. I think bleeker was also smart in a way to not see the baby or get emotionally attached because it makes things harder. In all we need to stop rushing things and acting like we are grown because a number said we are legally adults now. Thats doesn't mean we are mature to handle situations like these ones Sincerely, Your friend Gaby
You would have thought your first pregnancy scare would have been a reality check itself but after two you continue to do the same mistakes. You have been taught about the risks of having sex at this age , the PHYSICAL consequences and the EMOTIONAL consequences. Your mom gives you talks all the time as a reminder , she doesn't give them to you in a punishing way but just a reminder of care and safety but it seems that all that information went through one ear and out the other . Here you are standing thinking about your three decisions , abortion, adopting or keeping it . A women has the right to all three , you aren't forced to any of them besides the pressure of society . One being to keep the baby because it is your responsibility but yet you're are still learning how to be responsible yourself how can you start teaching another life about responsibility if you cant even be responsible yourself , two being to abort the baby because you dont want the responsibility and now are questioning yourself about the baby's dad weather he's staying or leaving, Three being giving the baby up for adoption to someone who isn't able to have the chance of having a baby , but you also dont want to live with that guilt of your child thinking you didn't care for them.
Im a Senior in high school. 5 months away from graduating. I start college this year and start making more serious life choices but I'm also still young and enjoying this time with friends , family and trying new fun things. I have plans of going to college and studying abroad. All those plans would come to and end if I were to get pregnant. I couldn't live with the fact of aborting my child or giving them up for adoption when I was taught and aware of all the consequences of having sex at this age . Especially if I knew my parents would be disappointed at first but still be supportive and wouldn't shut me out about the situation unlike for many other teens where there parents dont support them at all and completely shut them out . I would step up to the plate take responsibility for my actions . I wanted to take that risk of having sex at this age and act all stupid and think I'm all grown and now I deal with the consequences of it .
I think Juno made the right decision about giving up for adoption. Her and bleeker are clearly not ready to raise a child if they cant even talk. Although I dont think it was smart of her to get so close to the adoptive parents since she wanted a closed adoption. I think bleeker was also smart in a way to not see the baby or get emotionally attached because it makes things harder.
In all we need to stop rushing things and acting like we are grown because a number said we are legally adults now. Thats doesn't mean we are mature to handle situations like these ones Sincerely, Your friend Gaby